impressions
this has got to be the weirdest comment i have received in my lifetime. okay, maybe not. but it's pretty close.
"i hope you don't get offended, but you seem to be the type who would kiss a guy on a first date."
WHAT?!?!?!
i cannot BELIEVE people (read: men) actually even THINK of things like that. but apparently, they do. they probably size up women according to their bustlines. (incidentally, that same guy once said to me, "for someone of your height, i'd expect bigger boobs." okay, maybe it's just HIM that's weird.)
do i give the impression that i'm easy??? or aggressive???
. . .
WELL???
okay, different scenario.
went on a beach trip a few weeks back. met this girl who hung out with us. consequent conversation with friend regarding new girl:
she likes sticking to guys.
yeah, well, guys like sticking to her, too.
hello, with what she's wearing, of course guys would go near her. (fyi, she was wearing a string bikini.)
hey, what i'm wearing is pretty close! (haltertop bikini with board shorts)
yeah, but you have a more... wholesome aura.
hm. either i really do look more wholesome (what with a hundred square inches more of fabric coverage) or i look less... friendly. or maybe i'm just fatter and uglier. (of course, i would never accept THAT rationale. because, among other things, i've got a better tan. ha!!!)
honestly, i'd rather be seen as a prude than a flirt. i don't need to take off my clothes to have men give me a second look. i get enough unwanted attention fully-clothed, thank you. besides, men who are interested in me 'cause i look great in a 2-piece are not worth my time. so there.
"i hope you don't get offended, but you seem to be the type who would kiss a guy on a first date."
WHAT?!?!?!
i cannot BELIEVE people (read: men) actually even THINK of things like that. but apparently, they do. they probably size up women according to their bustlines. (incidentally, that same guy once said to me, "for someone of your height, i'd expect bigger boobs." okay, maybe it's just HIM that's weird.)
do i give the impression that i'm easy??? or aggressive???
. . .
WELL???
okay, different scenario.
went on a beach trip a few weeks back. met this girl who hung out with us. consequent conversation with friend regarding new girl:
she likes sticking to guys.
yeah, well, guys like sticking to her, too.
hello, with what she's wearing, of course guys would go near her. (fyi, she was wearing a string bikini.)
hey, what i'm wearing is pretty close! (haltertop bikini with board shorts)
yeah, but you have a more... wholesome aura.
hm. either i really do look more wholesome (what with a hundred square inches more of fabric coverage) or i look less... friendly. or maybe i'm just fatter and uglier. (of course, i would never accept THAT rationale. because, among other things, i've got a better tan. ha!!!)
honestly, i'd rather be seen as a prude than a flirt. i don't need to take off my clothes to have men give me a second look. i get enough unwanted attention fully-clothed, thank you. besides, men who are interested in me 'cause i look great in a 2-piece are not worth my time. so there.
posted by super inday at 8:25 am
2 Comments:
amen to that!
the guy who commentted -- is this in your blog, or a verbal comment? Oh man, where did that come from?
now i wonder what impression i'm sending off. but oh well, so what?
-- risha
hey rish!!! the first comment was said over the phone. the second comment was said in person!!! ewan. feeling close, siguro. hahaha =p but we're good friends (well, we WERE good friends harhar!) so i am not going to hold it against him. hinayaan ko na, dahil matanda na rin sya. wahahaha =p
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